Tell your family, friends, colleagues, acquaintances, strangers, and the universe know what you need with calm, love, joy, peace, compassion, and a smile.
Life & universe operate like a restaurant. If you do not put in an order, the server will go away asking you to let her/him know when you are ready. If you do order, but without care or respect, you may just get a few "hidden surprises" along with your order. Order often, order a lot, order with ease and a smile.
You are served everyday, ask for what you want.
"We don't ask God for too much; in fact, we ask for too little. Turn to Him for everything." ~ Marianne Williamson